It was not that long ago when people who were dating would actually pick up the phone and ask you out on a date. Now, it is texting, tweeting, Facebook and Google Plus that has changed the way of dating. In other words, this statement about why he will not call, also includes the other methods (and more) mentioned above. Below are a few insights on why the guy you are interested in is not contacting you.
Not every guy who spots a smart, beautiful and educated woman is going to suddenly run up to her and ask her out on a date. Many men may assume that a woman like this is a) already taken or b) would not give the interested man the time nor day. Of course, this is not true for most. If you are in this category, do not sweat it. It is not that men do not find you smart, beautiful and independent, it could be that the man who you are interested in is just not confident enough to approach you. Whether or not you choose to step up to the plate and initiate the conversation is your choice. However, always remember that any individual who shows this type of lack of confidence could end up having extreme trust issues and other unnecessary relationship problems in the long run.
HE IS ALREADY TAKEN!
Not every guy cheats, but at the same time, not every guy wants to wave a flag around that suggests that he is in a relationship. Perhaps, he is enjoying the attention from a lovely lady but chooses not to come out with his relationship status for fear that the loving attention he is getting will end. So if you give a guy your phone number and have not heard from him, there could be a possibility that he enjoyed your company, but at the end of the day, he chooses to stick with what he has. Do not worry though, hopefully in the future you may be lucky enough to find one of these "faithful" guys.
The title of number 3 speaks for itself. Some guys simply are in the playing around mood and do not call because they understand that they do not know how to act around a sophisticated woman. They have not yet learned the skills of having a mature and intellectual conversation and THEY KNOW IT! Again, in this situation you are better off single then running around with an immature man. These men are "highly" likely to show immaturity in other aspects of their life, including jobs, friends and family.
HE CANNOT AFFORD YOU!
A lot of men have brains that work like a calculator. A beautiful woman walks in and they assume that she must cost a fortune. Of course this observation is generally true, however, some of the ladies that have those nice things may not always be looking for a man to provide these things for them. Some ladies are just looking for companionship. Unfortunately, there are many men who have not figured this out on their own. Their automatic assumption is, if you look gorgeous and intelligent, you are way out of their league. In truth, if any man is this self-conscious, then perhaps this statement is true.
HE'S JUST NOT INTO YOU!
Let's face it, everyone you like is probably NOT going to like you back. You could be Miss America and still get the thumbs down. This does not mean that there is anything wrong with you. This suggests that sometimes the connection is not there on one end. Do not take this as failure or a form rejection. Do not even allow yourself to wonder WHY he does not like you... just move on! Be happy that you learned this piece of information from the beginning and not years later....
So there you have it! The top 5 reasons why men do not get in contact with "you" or another desirable woman. Of course there are other factors to consider i.e. he may be completely interested in you, but your lack of self-esteem is allowing you to miss all of the hints. If that is the case, this is a completely different story....STAY TUNED AND
Written By: Te-Shandra Haskett, MBA
"There are many devices in a man's heart; nevertheless the counsel of the LORD, that shall stand.
— Proverbs 19:21 (KJV)."