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Why you dislike your postpartum body and how to embrace it.

If you have had a baby and you do not like your postpartum body then you are not alone. Most women struggle to accept their postpartum body.  But have you ever wondered "why."" "Why do we dislike our postpartum body?" Why is it so hard to accept the difference?" "Why do so many women opt to change it through surgery or other ways that are advertised ?" Below are some of the top reasons why you hate your postpartum body. 5.  Your clothes don't fit the same After you have a baby, oftentimes your clothes  will not fit. Whether you are 6 weeks postpartum or 10 years, your clothing may never fit exactly the same, regardless of how much weight you lose. As a result some women may start to feel like a stranger in their own body. They may not know what clothes will flatter them anymore or how to find new clothes that look great on them. This can lead women to dislike their body. 4. You feel judged by others It is no secret that we live in an era wher

One of the most beautiful gals in the world, has cancer...

When I first saw this story I knew that I had to share it. It was very inspiring and something that everyone should have the opportunity to see. For those of you who do not know, I named this website "Redefining the Face of Beauty in America," because I wanted to have the opportunity to share  different ways to be beautiful, but first, as redundant as this may sound...Beauty actually starts in your heart. If you do not believe that you are beautiful or carry yourself with "confidence" these are the things that make you unattractive. The harsh reality is that regardless of how beautiful someone is on the outside, a bad attitude can make them "ugly." I do not like to use that word, however, it is very true. The most beautiful people in this world are not "only" the people who have it together on the outside, but, they are inspiring and they live for it. Their eyes shine bright, even on what may be their darkest moments. Many people do not understand, but the greatest reward in life is being able to serve another individual. To change a life and to give hope, is the greatest joy one can ever receive on earth. If we have done that, we have succeeded in changing the face of "beauty" and the world.

At the age of 12, this little girl is inspiring. The teenage years are harsh! That is when our  bodies start changing and everything in life is suddenly "HUGE!"

Cancer changes that reality. A family that is forced to struggle with cancer can quickly start to feel like they have been forsaken. But at 12, this little "Angel" is not only a true beauty on the inside BUT  "stunning" on the outside as well.  She has dedicated her life to providing make-up tips on YouTube videos, that are AMAZING!

I encourage everyone today to never give up hope! Everyone has a purpose and a plan. No one is a "waste of space." And to the families who are currently dealing with cancer, may you have a small sense of peace and hope by seeing that you are not alone in your current situation. There are many others who understand. And if you or a loved one is currently losing your battle with any illness....YOU CAN LOSE A BATTLE, BUT WIN THE WAR.  Let this little "Angel" give you hope, inspiration, and a will to keep moving on.  

"And we know that in all things God works for the good of those
who love him, who have been called according to his purpose
(Romans 8:28)."

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Please keep her in your thoughts in prayers...
"Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you (Hebrews 13:5)."

Written by: Te-Shandra Haskett, MBA