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Why you dislike your postpartum body and how to embrace it.

If you have had a baby and you do not like your postpartum body then you are not alone. Most women struggle to accept their postpartum body.  But have you ever wondered "why."" "Why do we dislike our postpartum body?" Why is it so hard to accept the difference?" "Why do so many women opt to change it through surgery or other ways that are advertised ?" Below are some of the top reasons why you hate your postpartum body. 5.  Your clothes don't fit the same After you have a baby, oftentimes your clothes  will not fit. Whether you are 6 weeks postpartum or 10 years, your clothing may never fit exactly the same, regardless of how much weight you lose. As a result some women may start to feel like a stranger in their own body. They may not know what clothes will flatter them anymore or how to find new clothes that look great on them. This can lead women to dislike their body. 4. You feel judged by others It is no secret that we live in an era wher


And remain fit? It is definitely possible! I eat sooo much every single 5,000 calories at least! (keep reading for the ultimate secrets at the end!!)

Okay, if you have not figured it out by now, I am completely bluffing. There is no way that most people, can eat whatever they want and remain healthy. It just does not happen. Anytime you see someone with a body that you would consider fit, they are probably doing something. Many people are under the false impression that smaller/fit people can eat anything, and still remain a certain size. NOT TRUE!

When I originally named this website, Redefining the Face of Beauty, I was speaking more about from the inside out. Unless you change how you think, you will never be able to change anything else in life.

SECRET: You have to change your lifestyle. Diets, and surgeries, may work temporarily, but unless a person changes their mind frame concerning food....they will ALWAYS gain the weight back....or never lose it.
Note: There are some issues where medication can increase a person's appetite, which may result in weight gain. Talk to your doctor about different healthy choices. Most (Not all) of the time this can be maintained by switching meds or finding healthier choices whenever you have those cravings.

  • More than 1/3rd of U.S. Adults are obese and 17% of children
  • Obesity-related conditions include heart disease, stroke, type 2 diabetes and certain types of cancer, some of the leading causes of death (CDC referenced).
  • Over 20% of people who have Gastric Bypass Surgery will gain the original weight back. This does not include the people who gain the original, plus any additional weight.
  • By the year 2019, Obesity is predicted to be the leading cause of death
  •  Currently, Heart Disease (Cancer #2) is the number one cause of death, with obesity being an enormous factor
  • Obese parents often have obese children, because parents unknowingly teach their child the same bad eating habits they have.
  • No one is ever happy with their body completely, even after they are in shape. Do the best YOU can do. DO NOT COMPARE!
Healthy Eating Tips: (The Ultimate Secrets Below)

"Why do you spend your money for that which is not bread, and your labor for that which does not satisfy? Listen diligently to me, and eat what is good, and delight yourselves in rich food
 (Isaiah 55:2)."

 “Do not join those who drink too much wine or gorge themselves on meat, for drunkards and gluttons become poor, and drowsiness clothes them in rags (Proverbs 23:20-21).”

"The one who keeps the law is a son with understanding, but a companion of gluttons shames his father 
(Proverbs 28:7)."

Authors Note: My personal lifestyle includes drinking lots of water, no soda, no fried foods or fast food. I rarely, if ever, eat at Restaurants or other peoples homes. Fruits and vegetables a must! Exercise and staying away from late night heavy snacks. DO NOT SKIP MEALS!  If you are currently eating whatever you want, it will catch up with you!! And skinny does not always equal healthy. GOOD LUCK!