10. TRUE OR FALSE?
A good man will always prefer women who are dressed super conservative?
EXPLANATION: If a woman chooses to wear a super long skirt and buttoned up collar, this will not automatically increase her a chances in finding a "good man." If that is what she likes, that is fine. Many people have the fallacy that men only respect women who dress a specific way. While that may be true to a certain extent, a man who treats a woman poorly on the basis of her clothing, does not have respect for women in general. Why would you want to be with a man who treats and calls other women whores because of the way they dress anyway?
Regardless of what you wear, you deserve respect. There are plenty of women who dress super conservative and have a bad man. When a man is telling you what you should wear, it could be a very clear indication that he is INSECURE. Yes, I said it. My husband has no problems if I choose to dress nice or dare I say sexy? Why?
Because at the end of the day, he is secure enough to know that I will be coming home to him.
9. TRUE OR FALSE?
Women who dress sexy, are doing it for the attention of another man.
***MAYBE? BUT PROBABLY FALSE ***
EXPLANATION: Maybe? If she is a teenager or a woman desiring specific attention. However, most of the time when a woman is dressed nice or sexy, it does not mean that she is doing it for attention from other men. This is a common misinterpretation that men have. Sometimes a woman will dress sexy for herself. I have a hard time believing why many men believe that every woman putting on that super cute outfit is doing it for him? Shall we say, conceited???
8. TRUE OR FALSE?
A woman dressed in a provocative manner, is asking a man to rape her.
***FALSE, FALSE, FALSE!!!!!!!!!!!!***
EXPLANATION: I can not stress to people enough that NO woman deserves or asks to be raped based on her clothing. And for those of you who tell other women this fallacy...SHAME ON YOU. A man should never put his hands on a woman against her will, even if she walks by naked. And for those ladies who have been raped and have been told this, I am sorry and, IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT.
You should adhere to the dress code policies at your job.
EXPLANATION: We still live in this world and we need to dress accordingly depending on specific dress code requirements from your employer. I am assuming you knew the dress code before you took the job?
6. TRUE OR FALSE?
A man shows his love for a woman by telling her how to dress.
EXPLANATION: This may be cute to some of you ladies in the beginning, but it gets old. Any man who is constantly telling you what to wear is controlling AND INSECURE. My advice....RUN!!
SIDE NOTE: Fellows, you enjoyed when your woman was looking a certain way before you two got together. Physical attractiveness is generally the first thing that catches your eye. So, what is the problem now???
5. TRUE OR FALSE?
Always dress for the occasion?
EXPLANATION: Dress how you want, but, if there are specific fancy occasions you are invited to attend, try not to show up looking sloppy. And you may want to hold off from wearing that extra low shirt if you are hanging out with your girlfriend and her significant other. Let's not be too distracting.
4. TRUE OR FALSE?
You can tell how much money a person has by the clothes they wear.
***TRUE AND FALSE***
EXPLANATION: When I look at people who are constantly wearing expensive clothing, the first thing that comes to my mind is broke. It is nice to buy yourself some high quality clothing, but some of you ladies are spending $1,000 on a purse? Did you pay cash or credit?
Let's be real! You are probably not even going to be wearing that same purse next month. For some crazy reason, people correlate wealth with people who wear super expensive clothing. Well, unless you are a millionaire, I think it is just plain financially unwise. And DO NOT get me started on the parents who spend LOADS of money on clothes for their 2 year old. Hello!!!! Obviously they are doing it for outside praise from other people for themselves. Two years old do not speak Gucci.
Men hate make-up and fake women.
EXPLANATION: I can see the guys already fuming at this statement and telling me I am super wrong. But I am totally not. Honestly guys, do you really think that the super hot women you are staring and fantasizing about on television, magazines, and movies are never wearing make-up, hair extensions or something fake at some point. GET REAL!
Sorry ladies if Megan Fox walked by, chances are pretty high your man is going to be checking her out a little bit more than that Amish chick. Honestly, I probably would be looking with him.
2. TRUE OR FALSE?People will always judge you regardless of how you dress?
You have a right to judge other people by the way they dress.
Written By: Te-Shandra Haskett, MBA
Author's Note: A proud man should be proud when other men find his lady attractive. This is not suggesting that a woman should go out and start showing her private parts to the world. However, a person deserves to feel good and express themselves. If you are judging a person by their clothing, you will find out very quickly that what a person wears has nothing to do with their character. Let God be the one to give these people personal convictions....NOT YOU.
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